Posts in Real Life
On Feeling Deeply, Not Blogging, and What Matters

I haven't been writing much (if you didn't notice, it's totally okay) and it felt like time to share why.

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What I Learned from My Dating Whirlwind (and Choosing to Stay Single)

After two years of singleness, I found myself with three guys who wanted to date me, and date them, I did. It was wild. It was a whirlwind. Spoiler alert: here I am a few weeks later, still single. Here's what I learned.

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BLOG-TEMBER: How I De-Stress

I'm no stranger to stress, and I've learned a lot in recent years about the things that help me combat those feelings and push forward into a healthier and happier state of mind.

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BLOG-TEMBER: A Moodboard

This moodboard is a visual representation of the kind of life I'm craving, of the kind of person I'm desiring to be: Still. Serene. Peaceful. Gentle. Patient. Kind. Self-care. Compassionate. Relaxed. At ease. Graceful. This is what's inspiring me.

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BLOG-TEMBER: An Apartment Tour

Here's a glimpse into our new place in the heart of our city-- it's not perfect, it's nothing fancy, but it's home, and we love it!

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BLOG-TEMBER: Introductions

Think of this like I'm the elementary school superstar of the week, getting to share pictures of all my favorite things on a posterboard... come get to know me and let's be friends!

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Echo Chambers and Challenging Your Comfortability

I encourage you not to stay in an echo chamber in your life. Don't stay stuck in the places where everyone around you tells you what you want to hear, what's safe to hear, what's comfortable to hear.

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The Kind of Person I Most Admire

There's a question Branden Harvey asks each guest at the end of his Sounds Good podcast-- How would you describe the kind of person you most admire in the world? Here's my answer!

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In Response to Another Black Life Lost

Another murder.

It’s sickening, but it isn’t surprising, and that wrecks me.

He did not look like me, but that does not mean I cannot mourn and grieve the loss of his life. His life mattered. He mattered. 

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A Coffee Date // June 13

These posts are a fun way to catch up, share all sorts of the best things in life, and feel like we're connecting despite distance and computer screens and all that.

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Christians & Consent: Powerful Responses to the Brock Turner Case

She opened with, “You don’t know me, but you’ve been inside me, and that’s why we’re here today.” Reading that sentence was all it took for there to be chills on my body and tears in my eyes.

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What To Do When There's Nothing You Can Do

When these awful, no-good, very bad things happen to somebody that isn't you, you feel utterly helpless. You feel useless.

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The Best Spring Cleaning Supplies

I'm ALL about these clean, green, earth-conscious products, and getting them delivered to me on demand? Yes please. 

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Reasons I Love Hockey

I'm a die-hard Washington Capitals fan, and I felt like it was time I told you why.

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I'm Single and I'm Good With It

Friends and family and well-meaning strangers, thank you for loving me so well. I know the heart behind your comments is one that is good and pure, but just know that I'm alive and well and happy and confident and content in my singleness. Please hear that.

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All the Garden Goodness

Because when you build garden beds yourself and plant a ton of veggies and have a bountiful harvest, you should share it with the world.

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To Let Them Know My Gratitude

May we thank the ones who love and lead us. May we use our words to express our gratitude now while we can, for life is short and chances might not come again.

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